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Whether you feel like you need long term support and nurturance,
a short term intervention to help you get back on track,
or a supportive community to share your journey with, we
can be of service.
You can work with us one on one, with in-person
private sessions and phone
sessions, you can come and take part in one of
our community centered public workshops, or you can attend
one of our small group telecourses.
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We regularly assist individuals in achieving success
in the following pursuits:
Overall improvement of life
quality; Relieving stress, reliving happiness
Committing to living a fulfilling
life; Cultivating heartfelt relationships
Strategies for increased
creativity; Beginning life anew
Getting out of the head
and into the body–Tapping into one's emotions
Learning self-hypnosis;
Stopping smoking; Weight reduction
Performance Enhancement
for Singers, Musicians, Athletes, and Actors
Recovery from various psychosomatic
illnesses; Pain relief from injuries
Pain relief and recovery
from conditions of a somewhat unknown origin (For instance: migraine headaches,
fibromyalgia, cancer, depression)
Improving upon or changing
careers; Learning how to better adapt to the workplace
Learning how to deal with
challenging people; Conflict resolution and negotiation
Personal and Professional
Coaching; Coaching other coaches
In our work with individuals we help you to:
Understand how you structure
your model of the world, and how different beliefs, and greater appreciation
for your strengths and weaknesses, can lead to a healthier, more energized
life with higher quality relationships.
Experience that your body
is as intelligent as the brain in your skull.
Understand how your body's
intelligence stimulates the thoughts and actions of your cognitive mind.
Learn how to access, understand,
and act upon the information transmitted between your body and your brain,
rather than turning misunderstood body communication into "bad habits"
and poor health.
Build the brain-body pathways
of communication, that set in motion profound transformation.
Release excess energy trapped
in the body and convert it into fuel for change.
Uncover and understand
your method of learning, in order to harvest your unique intelligence
and transform it into actionable, generative outcomes.
Transform perceptions of
problems or illness, into opportunities to change and evolve.
Have greater appreciation
for your dignity, dreams, and desires, so you can fully commit to the
life you long for.
Discover your full potential
by integrating the self as a whole.
The key beliefs that make such a wide range of work
possible are —
A deep trust in the intelligence,
creativity, and soul of our clients.
The body holds the answer
to many puzzles the cognitive mind alone cannot express or solve.
Thoughts, actions, and
emotions are all part of the same loop of intelligence. We do not "separate"
between physical, emotional, and mental challenges.
Every challenge we encounter
definitely has a solution.
Kudos and Testimonials
"Charlie's workshops are highly improvisational in nature, with each
seminar being tailored to the needs and desires expressed by the audience.
His work is known for its magic, depth of experience, and celebration
of life. He weaves together theory, poetry, music, practical applications,
and a clear sense of reconnecting to one's core identity. You are invited
to enter into an austere theater of everyday life. Please come and experience,
in a supportive community – A heartfelt experience beyond words."
The practices are simple, doable, and carry the potential of delivering
profound changes
"Charlie Badenhop is an extraordinary man. For me, his work offers great
insights into the unity of mind and body in clear, simple language that
is immediately graspable and at the same time shatters any rigid conceptions
one might be holding. The practices I have learned from Charlie are simple,
doable, and carry the potential of delivering profound changes.
I experience Charlie as a deeply honest, direct, open, powerful, and
humble man. He is both an unforgettable character, and a real inspiration
to me."
Mary Ann Giorgio, C. S. W., Brooklyn, New York
You have done more to awaken me to life and help me travel through pain
than anyone I know
Charlie, I feel that you have done more to awaken me to life and help
me travel through pain than anyone I know or any experience I have ever
had. What little I understand of your work has also been life altering
for one client and life revealing for 4 others to an extent that now
I am striving to find the tools to help them continue to heal. The personal
and professional process has been both challenging and rewarding as I
search for balance and harmony for myself and others. It is simultaneously
difficult and delightful to work with you. Thank you Charlie, you are
always in my heart.
Julie, San Diego
If you would like to know what some of Charlie's clients say about his
work, please go to the "Kudos"
section of our site and read what they have to say.
Work Schedule and Telephone Arrangements
for Individual Services
Work hours range from 8:30AM to 9PM Tokyo time. Seishindo absorbs all
long distance charges for our clients worldwide.
For a more detailed description of services and fees, please contact
us at:
charlie@seishindo.org.
If you would like to "meet" Charlie prior to booking a session,
he will be glad to give you a call so you can get a better sense of what
you might like to accomplish, and how he works. Email Charlie at charlie@seishindo.org
and he will arrange a time for a call.
If you've spoken to or emailed Charlie and agreed on the particulars of
your service, please click on the Paypal button just below to render payment.
Simply fill in the price that's been agreed upon. Paypal is fast and secure,
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Seishindo In-Person Sessions
As I travel worldwide, many people engage with me in private consultations.
The concerns my clients express range from wanting to begin recovery
from a life threatening illness, wanting a clearer sense of direction
professionally or personally, or wanting to learn self-hypnosis techniques
for overcoming debilitating habits.
Private sessions are meant to help you change the way you perceive
and appreciate your self - the people you are in relationship with -
the life challenges you face.
As profound as private sessions often are for people, the main purpose
of a session is to help you sprout the seed of your true heart's
desire. It then becomes your task to continue to nurture this seed to
bring forth a lasting sense of fulfillment. This means that as important
as the initial sprouting is, what you do to continue this life enhancing
process, is of equal importance. In most instances I suggest Practices
that I think would be helpful for you to engage in regularly. Some people
continue their exploration with me via phone sessions, while others
continue their process by working with someone in their local area.
Recently a client offered me a lovely metaphor for her experience of
her session. She said that during our time together she felt as if a
bell within her heart had been rung for the first time in a very long
time. She said that after her session she could feel the bell still
reverberating, and that little by little she was finding a way to maintain
a feeling of this life affirming resonance.
As Westerners we are used to trying to solve our problems by talking
to someone who is wise, and can offer us advice. In Asia people are
used to meditating on challenging situations and performing Practices
to help them wake up to their own wisdom. By becoming fully present
in the moment they access a whole self understanding of how to engage
their challenges skillfully.
In Seishindo private sessions we combine the best of Eastern and Western
traditions. We guide you to become present in the moment, by helping
you shift your awareness and physiology as well as your verbal conversations
and thinking. In short, you wind up experiencing a heartfelt way of
understanding your life and your challenges that profoundly transcends
the limitations of solutions crafted solely in your head.
If you desire to live a more enjoyable rewarding life, if you feel
ill at ease in your body, or if your thoughts and your emotions often
run contrary to each other, a Seishindo in-person session can help you
to:
Live
more often in the moment.
Learn
how to honor the feelings and intuitive wisdom that emanate from your
body.
Feed
the desires of your heart and your soul, as well as the dictates of
your intellect.
I look forward to meeting you and helping you take a heartfelt baby
step or two on your life's path.
Read what
other people say about Seishindo private sessions.
If you would like to "meet" Charlie prior to booking a session,
he will be glad to give you a call so you can get a better sense of
what you might like to accomplish, and how he works. Email Charlie at
charlie@seishindo.org
and he will arrange a time for a call.
The Principles, Beliefs, and Approach of Seishindo Life Coaching
Principles
In Seishindo coaching we help people open up to their own wisdom, rather
than having them wait to be guided by the wisdom of the coach.
Seishindo coaching is the art of empathetic listening and deep structure
questioning.
"Empathetic listening" is the ability to feel the emotional
impact of what is being said.
"Empathetic listening" is the ability to feel the emotional
truth of what is being said.
"Deep structure questioning" discerns and uncovers the emotional
understanding that leads to the breakdown in the first place.
"Deep structure questioning" discerns and uncovers the emotional
understanding that is essential for accessing solutions.
Seishindo coaching helps people to understand that there are at least
three ways to change what is occurring.
1. Change the context you are in. Go somewhere
else, do something else, renegotiate relationships, change the current
"rules" etc.
2. Change your understanding of the context.
(Ex. "Work" really can be enjoyable.)
3. Change yourself by becoming more aware
and flexible.
In Seishindo coaching we help the client go outside their context and
take a new look at what is going on.
In Seishindo coaching we offer the client a new set of emotional eyes
and ears.
When you infuse an organization with emotional freedom, creativity, and
responsibility, and you give people the right to say "No", you
wind up with a highly motivated, intelligent group of people.
The right to say "No" has to precede the ability to say "Yes."
Otherwise, you will not be able to fully commit to your "yes".
In Seishindo coaching the coach acts as an interpreter and translator.
1. For the client, in regard to what others
are saying and meaning.
2. For the client in regard to what s(he)
is saying and meaning.
3. For others who are having difficulty understanding
the client.
This service is similar to when you see a famous person getting their
speech translated when they are in a foreign country.
Many of us live in countries, the culture of which is "foreign"
to our counterparts, and we do not realize it.
"Is this what you mean?" "Is this what you believe?"
OR
"I believe she means to say X. Is that correct?" "I believe
that the belief he is trying to express is Y".
The fact that you stay stuck resides in the way you use your body and
verbal language to tell your story of stuckness.
What emotions would you need to have available in order to tell a new
story?
How would you body need to be different in order to tell a different story?
How would you need to change your beliefs in order to tell a new story?
Seishindo coaching is meant to help people begin to have conversations
that were initially invisible to them. Conversations that they did not
know were existing.
Usually at some point in coaching the client's belief in what is possible,
needs to change. And, for most people changing their belief(s) can be
frightening. Part of a coach's job is to offer their clients emotional
support, and a modicum of guidance.
Beliefs
In Seishindo life coaching we have a deep respect for the skills, abilities,
and intelligence of our clients. We believe that you are already "perfect"
just as you are. Rather than attempting to help you continually refine
yourself until such time that you match the image you have in your head,
we strive to help you understand who you already are. The more you let
go of false perceptions of yourself, the more you will find that numerous
problems dissolve "on their own."
In Seishindo life coaching we believe that the way we inhabit our bodies
in the course of everyday life, and particularly in situations of threat
or difficulty, plays a crucial role in our ability to perform with excellence
and live a fulfilling life. A body that is relaxed and aware, rich in
oxygen supply, balanced in structure, and able to move freely, is a body
that supports our effectiveness, fulfillment and enjoyment of life. This
way of living within our bodies fosters our creativity, emotional openness,
and mental flexibility.
Approach
In Seishindo life coaching we believe that short term high quality teamwork
between coach and client, can lead to long-term sustainable gains. It
is common for our clients to engage in a two or three month round of coaching,
take the time to rejuvenate and integrate what has been learned, and then
once again engage in further rounds of coaching.
As Westerners we are used to trying to solve our "problems" through conversation,
whether we call these conversations "coaching" or "therapy." In Asia people
are used to meditating on challenging situations and performing Mindfulness
Practices to help them have a whole self understanding of how to engage
these challenges skillfully. In Seishindo coaching we hope to combine
the best of Eastern and Western traditions. We find that by asking our
clients to engage in mindfulness practices that help them shift their
physiology as well as their conversations and thinking, they learn faster,
and achieve their goals in a more ecological and wholistic manner.
What is required from the client is the commitment to actually engage
in the customized practices for a period of time, in order to experience
the benefits. The client becomes an active participant in understanding
and determining how it is s/he learns and can best become more solution
oriented. The purpose of the coaching sessions (either by phone or in
person) is to inspire, support, clarify, and expand upon the learning
achieved by performing the regimen of prescribed practices. In this way,
our clients learn how to take a leading role in achieving the results
they desire.
If you would like to find out more about Seishindo Life Coaching, please
contact Charlie directly at charlie@seishindo.org.
If you would like to "meet" Charlie prior to booking a session,
he will be glad to give you a call so you can get a better sense of what
you might like to accomplish, and how he works. Email Charlie at charlie@seishindo.org
and he will arrange a time for a call. |