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On Self Improvement, Perfection, and Imperfection

Problems First

"Pure Heart, Simple Mind"® vol. 5, no.5, March 1, 2007
Official Newsletter of Seishindo™—Body Language, Self Hypnosis and Mindfulness.
Written by Charlie Badenhop, the originator of Seishindo.
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Serving a community of private individuals and professionals who have the desire to cultivate a life of clarity, compassion, and creativity. We warmly welcome our new subscribers. Thanks for joining! Your feedback is encouraged. Please feel free to contact us.

IN THIS ISSUE:
1. Problems First
2. Upcoming Seishindo Telecourses
3. Subscribe/Unsubscribe



1. Problems First

Do you find it hard to feel satisfied with who you are and what you've accomplished so far in life? If so, please consider adopting the following perspective.

Toyota is one of the most successful auto makers on the planet. A fact that's painfully obvious to its competitors.

There's a phrase used in Toyota that helps them stay focused on striving to be the best they can be. The phrase is "Problems First" and it leads them to look for what can be improved upon in the future, rather than being satisfied with what they've already accomplished.

Such a phrase could quickly lead one to feel negative and unappreciated if not framed in the right context. At Toyota they have three suppositions that help to flesh out their credo and give it a positively oriented meaning:

1. The hard work and good intentions of everyone in the company is highly appreciated, and each and every worker is meant to be treated with respect.

2. No matter what stage of development they're currently involved in, they realize the concepts of "success" and "achievement" are "moving targets" that will change as the day to day success and achievements of the company continue to evolve.

3. They freely acknowledge that everyone makes mistakes.

These suppositions extend up to the CEO, and down to the person emptying the waste bins. Once you really "get" these three suppositions, you can stop trying to make believe you're "unnaturally perfect", and instead, acknowledge and appreciate who you are.

Rather than striving to be perfect, at Toyota they share a communal aspiration of "always being capable of improvement". This is a goal everyone can approach every single day of their life with humility and dignity. It's also a goal they'll never be able to say they've fully accomplished, and that makes it all the more fulfilling to pursue.

The quality of your life will significantly improve once the "I have to be perfect." monkey is off your back. You'll be free to ask for help, and no longer need to cover up your mistakes and the imperfections you mistakenly perceive yourself as having. Rather than yearning or pretending to be someone else, you can free yourself to simply be perfectly imperfect YOU! Isn't this the life you yearn to live?

At Toyota, instead of striving to achieve lofty yearly targets, they prefer to set their sights on humble daily and monthly goals they're likely to accomplish. They set "small" goals that they regularly achieve, and build upon these small successes the very next day. Rather than having their eye on the future, they are focused on today. You can do the same in your own life.

In actuality, if you look closely at what they're doing at Toyota you'll understand that "Quality Control" and "Improved Efficiency" are not really goals, but rather idealistic pursuits with no beginning or ending. You never sit back and bask in yesterday's achievements, as this would only make you fall behind in reaching the goals you've set for today. You don't try to improve because you think something is "wrong". Instead, you strive to improve simply because you know improvement is something you're capable of. Holding yourself to high standards can be very gratifying when you start from a place of already appreciating and respecting yourself and your accomplishments.

If you don't love yourself as you are now, then whatever form of self improvement you undertake in the future you'll inevitably miss the mark. You won't find long term fulfillment by striving to be perfect and never making mistakes. You can though discover a deep sense of satisfaction by striving day by day to fulfill your infinite potential.

In the process, you'll find it paradoxically reassuring to know you'll never achieve your goal!




3. Upcoming Seishindo Telecourses


We are pleased to announce that both of our last telecourses filled up to the brim, and we had to ask several people to wait for this next round.

It is so wonderful to know we are producing products and services
that please you!

Thanks so much for appreciating our work.

Please take a few moments to read our new offerings and consider whether there's something here that will help you better live the life you desire.

Also, please let us know if there are other topics related to Seishindo that you would like to see us teach.

Charlie

Charlie@seishindo.org

 
"I am learning so much from the Seishindo telecourses I've been taking with Charlie! There is an intimate, trusting environment created that is much more than I would have ever expected over the phone. Pretty amazing actually! We get the opportunity to interact and learn from each other, and, most importantly, we each get to learn about ourselves. I think part of what helps to create such a special environment is that Charlie keeps the classes much smaller than most offerings from other people. The small group leads to a wonderful sense of kinship with the others in the class. I have been grateful for the kind support and attention I've received from Charlie and the group in these telecourses.

Charlie has read widely and his experience both professional and personal comes through clearly in each session as he gently guides people to make changes big and small. Personally I find that my life is becoming fuller and more meaningful. I'm benefiting from the many diverse elements Charlie weaves into his work. His interactions with me have helped me increase my awareness of myself and others. The classes have assisted me in facing some of my fears which in turn, inevitably lead to me feeling better about myself.

There is one very practical thing about the teleclasses I would like to mention. It's so great to come into my office, turn on the computer, and phone into the teleclass. No travel time, no commuting. Just settling back in the quiet of my space to devote special time to myself, at a convenient moment in the week.

I've taken the time to write this kudo because I'd really like to encourage others to experience Charlie's work. I am pretty certain you'll come away feeling like you have received something truly special."
Joyce Cunningham, Japan

"...I've had migraines and fibromyalgia for years. I took pills, talked to doctors, and tried lots of different remedies, but the pain just got worse. As a last resort I took the Seishindo 'Finding Inner Peace' workshop on October 30, 2006, and I am feeling blessed for having done so! It's been several weeks now and I continue to feel better each day. No more pain pills because I don't hurt as much and believe it or not, my vision has also improved!..." Shelley Kaufman-Young, Virginia, USA
     
Seishindo Telecourses
* Discover how to use your body and your breath
to create different emotional states.

* Learn how to communicate more, by speaking less.

Six Session Telecourse
Embodied Presence:
Walking in the world with grace and power

with Charlie Badenhop, the originator of Seishindo
April 17, 24; May 1, 8, 15, 22 (Tuesday evenings)


Do you find yourself getting stuck with certain clients without really understanding why?

I promise you can be more confident and effective, if you take the time to learn how the body drives people's emotions, and thus their behavior.

Six Session Telecourse
"Talk" to the body and change the emotions --
Somatic Coaching Skills for Coaches

with Charlie Badenhop, the originator of Seishindo
April 26, May 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 (Thursday evenings)



"My experience of Charlie and the practices of Seishindo have been nothing short of profound. By tapping into my own somatic and emotional sources of wisdom, I can now come from an authentic place in bringing these practices to my executive coaching clients. I was awed at the life-changing insights participants in his workshops were able to experience with his gentle and humble guidance."
Connie MacKinnon, Executive Coach & Management Consultant, Calgary, Canada



"...Beware, if you go to a workshop with this intuitive, compassionate trainer, life will never be the same again!... As a consultant, trainer, and coach in communication and leadership Charlie has offered me a variety of tools and experiences that go much further than what I had already learned as an NLP trainer and breathworker. His workshops are excellent, and his approach to coaching has made a major change in my personal life as well as helping me to enrich the lives of my clients. ..."
Danielle De Wilde, Consultant, Trainer, and Coach, Belgium

"...For the first time in my life I feel love for myself. My somatic intelligence has done its work, and this is a very interesting process! Something has really changed. And after all of this, I find myself feeling healthy, without pills or any special supplements, for the first time in many years. ...
Corry Brons, Belgium

"...My energy is much more even and I’m not losing focus or having to push through fatigue. What a wonderful relief to not have to use so much energy to manage my pain. I feel like a person released from jail, and ready to explore a new life!..."
June Holley, Ohio, USA


 




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